To assess your readiness to work with a Relationship Coach for the purpose of making changes in your Relationship Life, rate yourself on each of the following indicators. Try to be objective and honest with yourself. I recommend asking close friends and family members for their opinions as well.
Rating Scale: Rate each question on a scale of 1-10.
8-10: Very Ready: I am v-e-r-y coachable and ready to hire Dr. Jackie today so I can get to work and learn how to Date Smart; to know myself inside and out, and identify what I am looking for in a partner. Or, I can become emotionally intelligent and get to work to repair or rebuild my marriage, learn, practice and master the essential relationship success skills, and co-create the healthy, happy and lasting marriage my partner and I deserve to have with each other.
5 – 7: Nearly Ready: I want to get ready to work with Dr. Jackie soon. Knowing a little more about how coaching could help, and understanding the difference between coaching and therapy would be very helpful for me to make this important decision.
0 – 4: I need more information: I am not ready to consider making changes in my attitudes, thoughts, beliefs or behaviors at this time.
| 1. I am ready to make changes in my thinking and behavior to improve my personal relationships. | |
| 2. I am ready to make changes in my professional/work life to improve my personal relationships. | |
| 3. I know exactly what I want my life and my love life to be like. I am focusing on creating the changes to support that happening today. | |
| 4. I am open to stretching myself in various ways to create the life that I love and have the personal relationships I have always wanted. | |
| 5. I am interested in creating relationships in all parts of my life that are satisfying, respectful and fun. | |
| 6. I have given a lot of time and attention to becoming aware of my life’s purpose and passions. | |
| 7. I am ready to let a Relationship Coach support me in getting what I want and creating the life I love and the love relationship that will be meaningful and enriching. | |
| 8. I understand the value of knowing my strengths, limits, values, requirements, needs and wants in my relationship life. I am ready to work with a Relationship Coach to help me make my life and my love life a reality. | |
| 9. I learned about coaching a while ago. I like the idea of having a Coach offer guidance, information, and hold me accountable to achieve my goals and make my hopes and dreams come true. | |
| 10. I want to hire a Relationship Coach today and start living the life I was meant to live and create the relationships I was meant to have. |
Now total up your score:
80 – 100: You are ready now! It’s time to hire Dr. Jackie and start creating your ideal life with your ideal partner. Download Chapter 1 of Dr. Jackie’s best selling dating book Meeting Your Match: Cracking the code to successful Relationships.
50-79: You are almost ready to hire Dr. Jackie and get to work! It is time to muster your courage and decide to stop trying to love and be loved based on faulty thinking, erroneous assumptions, beliefs and expectations that are limiting you or stopping you from creating the life that most reflects your values and passion and a love to share it. Download Chapter 1 of Dr. Jackie’s best selling dating book Meeting Your Match: Cracking the code to successful Relationships.
0 –49:It is time to speak with Dr. Jackie and gather information about Relationship Coaching and what you can reasonably expect from this dynamic and new way to create the relationships that affirms your best Self and increases the joy in your life and in your relationships. Download Chapter 1 of Dr. Jackie’s best selling dating book Meeting Your Match: Cracking the code to successful Relationships.
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