Couples in Trouble

If you think your marriage is in trouble, it probably is.

Love is NOT enough! Successful, committed relationships require attitudes, beliefs, behaviors and skills that affirm and enhance each person and the relationship.

Every marriage relationship is unique, but there are common warning signs and red flags that indicate problems in the marriage.

• Are you still in love and seriously out of sync?
• Do you still love each other but the spark and the joy of being together is gone?
• Are you committed to staying in your marriage but some days it feels more like a prison sentence than a choice based on a value?
• Do you recognize red flags and warning signs of problems in your marriage?
• Do you let issues like finances, household chores or raising your children create a wedge between you and your partner?

If you answered YES to just one of these questions then please consider that you are a Couple in Trouble and know that help is available!

You must confront issues in your marriage and not hide your head in the sand like an Ostrich.

My mission is to challenge you to explore the old beliefs, old expectations and outdated values which don’t work anymore and that are limiting you in your life and love life; and causing you pain and keeping you stuck.

My job is to support you to focus on specific relational areas that need to be strengthened just like muscles in your physical body:

• Reduce the conflict in your relationship
• Repair hurt feelings
• Resolve resentments and anger
• Redefine roles and boundaries
• Improve your verbal and nonverbal communication
• Learn skills and techniques to resolve issues and challenges
• Deepen  emotional, physical and spiritual connection
• Rekindle the closeness and intimacy

You probably don’t realize that you and your partner already have many of the life skills and natural abilities you need to successfully change the way you relate to each other.  In our work together we will tap into these powerful internal resources you already have:  

• Identify the skills you have and are already using that are associated with your business and professional success;
• Learn how to transfer these business and professional success skills to your marriage;
• Understand what makes something work in one part of your life so you can benefit from using it in another part of your life;
• Track the trials and tribulations you survived, appreciate the lessons you learned and apply them to your relationship life;
• Deepen your awareness about your personal gifts, skills, talents and the resources you have developed throughout your life, and make them work for you;
• Practice transitioning from *worker* to *honey* energy in your relationship;
• Explore what you really want in your love life;
• Assess your choices that derail your compatibility with being a loving, available spouse.

Successful, contemporary couples need to develop emotional intelligence; learn, practice and master essential relationship success skills; and must be courageous, compassionate, committed, tolerant and persistent.

It isn’t enough just to know you can or must. Couples Coaching will show you how!