Instead of feeling lonely, angry and disconnected,

make every day feel like you’re on your honeymoon

My Gift to You

Your Romance Checklist

5 Simple Actions You Can Take to Immediately Increase the Love and Closeness in Your Relationship

The Benefits of Solving Your Relationship Problem

Stop Fighting

Fighting, fairly or otherwise, requires that someone wins, which means your partner must lose.

Happy partners create and protect their open-hearted, undefended connection.

They co-create a Win Win Win:
I Win, YOU Win, WE Win

Start Celebrating

Don’t wait to make your relationship extraordinary. Make today and every day for the rest of your life feel like you’re on your honeymoon.

 Happy partners have the tools to make this their reality.

Become Lovers Again

Feel safe and adored no matter how long you’ve felt lonely, disappointed and disconnected.

If you’ve become only companions, the fallout can be disastrous, but with help you can repair the hurt in your heart and restore your closeness.

Why work with
Dr. Jackie
When you hire me, I am completely focused on you and your partner as a couple. In our work together, both of you will get your needs met. What makes me different from so many relationship professionals is that I’m able to see you as a couple and your interactions and reactions, and then unwrap all that and help each of you get down to where you are, who you are, how you operate, what your values are, and then weave those threads into the fabric of your relationship. Nobody is the bad guy. Nobody is identified as the one who must make a change or suffer a loss for the greater good. Nobody is asked to compromise, give in, give up or settle for less than what you need and want to be happy. Both of you get to be your best and most brilliant passionate Self in the presence of each other. My guiding principle is to help you as a couple co-create a Win, Win, Win outcome, no matter what the issue is. I Win. You Win. We Win. With me, you get over 36 years of experience guiding 1,000+ couples across cultures in eight countries. I help couples gain the tools and know-how designed to enable you to experience an extraordinary relationship.
About Dr. Jackie

I love helping couples

become lovers again.

My mission is to empower every couple in the world to deepen their unique connection, and celebrate feeling loved, valued and cherished by each other every day.

I am a Relationship Expert, Marriage Educator and Board-Certified Coach to Couples, and I believe you can make every day feel like you’re on your honeymoon.

Unfortunately, most couples don’t have the first idea how to effectively deal with the normal, daily changes and challenges that assault relationships on an ongoing basis.

No one ever taught us the couples-specific tools we need to sustain a happy, lasting relationship.

Without them, partners often end up tense, disillusioned, disappointed, upset and distant from each other. The good news is that my marriage coaching programs include these couple-specific tools that will guide you to restore and deepen the closeness between you, strengthen your resilience, and celebrate your life and love together every day.

Jackie Black, PH.D., BCC
Relationship Expert, Marriage Educator, Board-Certified Coach to Couples.

Here’s what my clients have to say

“Our life and our marriage are finally reflective of who we are as individuals and as a couple.”

Coaching with you is awesome. In our first conversation I was shocked to recognize that it was I who had withdrawn from Ken and our relationship, not Ken. Our life and our marriage are finally reflective of who we are as individuals and as a couple. We are so grateful for our on-going work with you and the enormous benefits we get from your guidance and the couple-specific skills and tools we use for everything life throws at us. ~ Marcus H. and Ken L.

“It’s true – it feels like we’re on our honeymoon every day.”

Things had reached such a low point between us and we were both losing hope that we could ever be happy again. After working with Dr. Jackie for a few weeks we stopped walking around everyday angry and hurt. We are both stronger individually and we are prepared as a couple for whatever comes our way. I wasn’t sure it was possible, but it’s true – it feels like we’re on our honeymoon every day. We thank you, Dr. Jackie. ~ Brad and Joanne M.

“What a relief to know how to comfort ourselves and each other in tough times.”

We are deeply grateful to have tools and skills that help us stay connected to each other, especially when tough things come up – and they still do! What a relief to know how to comfort ourselves and each other in tough times. This has made all the difference in the world. With deep gratitude, Jenny and Beth. ~ Jenny K. and Beth R.

“What we learned and how we have both changed is more than sticking.”

I wasn’t too sure about a Zoom marriage coaching experience, but your personal guidance and loving presence on Zoom calls was exactly right for us. We have been through marriage counseling several times over the years, but marriage counseling never did stick. What we learned and how we have both changed is more than sticking, it has become the framework of how we relate every day. Kudos, Dr. J! ~ Sue and Aaron H.

“I think about what we almost lost because we were both so hurt and angry.”

I had to be talked into the first meeting with Dr. Jackie, but at the end of the day, what an amazing experience we’ve had working with her, and we continue to do our couples work with her on a regular basis. Why would we ever try to do this alone?!?! Working with her changed us and our marriage. I cringe when I think about what we almost lost. Sending heartfelt thanks, Dr. Jackie. ~ Dennis M. and Robert A.

“It is stunning how different we are individually and as a couple after just a few months of working with you, Dr. Jackie.”

When I watch us dealing with the same stuff today that we have been dealing with for fourteen years, it is stunning how different we are individually and as a couple after just a few months of working with you, Dr. Jackie We are kind, compassionate and very gentle with each other’s hearts, and having more fun than ever. Thank you is not enough. ~ Marley and Joe C.

“Marriage Coaching with you is a must-do for couples intending to have happy, lasting marriages.”

Feeling like we are on our honeymoon every day was way beyond our expectation. We’ve been down the marriage counseling road and we always ended up further apart. Dr. Jackie, you are a marriage wizard. We marvel every day at how happy and content we are and how much fun it is being together! Marriage coaching with you is a must-do for couples intending to have lasting marriages. We are forever grateful. ~ Dane and Samantha R.

“We can’t get over how fast we made BIG shifts and changes.”

Dr. Jackie, we are so grateful to you for helping us stop the downward spiral in our marriage. We lost track of each other –almost completely. Our life became a tedious series of transactional conversations, as you would call them, and we stopped connecting to each other and enjoying each other. Our marriage coaching with you has been remarkable. We can’t get over how fast we made BIG shifts and changes. Dr. Jackie you rock! ~ Karen and Howard M.

“You helped us recharge and strengthen our marriage.”

Martin and I are forever grateful to you, Dr. Jackie. We called you during the darkest time in our marriage – when Martin was diagnosed with Prostate cancer. We had wonderful medical care, but our marriage was dying on the vine. You helped us recharge and strengthen our marriage. We’ll always be grateful for your wisdom, insight, and keen understanding of what we needed so we didn’t sacrifice our marriage fighting for Martin’s life. ~ Sarah and Martin M

“When I decided that I wanted to explore early retirement it was like a huge Tsunami hit our marriage.”

A thousand thanks, Dr. Jackie! When I decided that I wanted to explore early retirement it was like a huge Tsunami hit Nancy and our marriage. Coaching with you was like being on an exciting expedition, discovering what was next for us. We’re thankful that working with you enabled us to take the perfect next step for both of us. We are making every day feel like we are on our honeymoon. Sending hugs from our new RV! ~ Nancy and John G.

“Wow! is what Margery and I want to say about our work with you, Dr. Jackie.”

Wow! is what Margery and I want to say about our work with you, Dr. Jackie. We hadn’t even figured out how to be married when Margery was diagnosed with Fibromyalgia. You inspired us and held the space for us to step into our hopes and dreams for ourselves and our marriage; and showed us how to use that toolbox of yours that enables to us to cherish and treasure each other every day. Our heartfelt gratitude Dr. J! ~ The Grants – Margery and Donald

“The spark is back in our marriage and we are excited for our future together.”

We were at rock bottom. We were angry and blaming each other for everything and didn’t know where to turn. We knew things had to change, but we didn’t have any idea how to change anything. Dr. Jackie helped us stop being angry and awful with each other, and start being caring loving and enjoying each other. Her level of care was amazing. The spark is back in our marriage and we are excited for our future together. ~ Donna M. and Rachel R.
How Does it work:
Step 1:

First, you, your partner and I will have a free Zoom conversation where we get to know each other. I want to hear about your relationship: What’s working, what’s not, what you’re struggling with the most and what solutions you’ve already invested in that didn’t work.

Step 2:

Next, you can get a sense of me and how we interact. I’ll answer all your questions about me and how I work with my clients, and we’ll talk about your vision of how you want your relationship to be.

Step 3:

After we talk, you’ll decide if I’m the person who can help you. I’ll decide if we’re a good fit to work together. If we agree, we’ll begin our couple’s work.

How Does it work:
Step 1:

First, you, your partner and I will have a free Zoom conversation where we get to know each other. I want to hear about your relationship: What’s working, what’s not, what you’re struggling with the most and what solutions you’ve already invested in that didn’t work.

Step 2:

Next, you can get a sense of me and how we interact. I’ll answer all your questions about me and how I work with my clients, and we’ll talk about your vision of how you want your relationship to be.

Step 3:

After we talk, you’ll decide if I’m the person who can help you. I’ll decide if we’re a good fit to work together. If we agree, we’ll begin our couple’s work.

What is the cost of not solving
your relationship problem?

A part of you already knows.

What has it already cost you to remain where you are? Now, think forward one year… what could happen if you don’t make changes and you continue on the path you’re on now? This is the real cost of not taking action today. It’s worth it to solve your relationship problem now because it will have a positive ripple effect in all areas of your life. There is so much to consider. I can help you sort out your concerns. Let’s set up a few minutes to chat about the shifts and changes you’d like to make in your relationship. With the outcomes you expect from doing this change work with me, we can craft personalized strategies to help you solve the specific problems and challenges you have in your relationship. One conversation can change your relationship forever. This one might be the one.

Helping couples make every day feel like they’re on their honeymoon.
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