Whether you are a newly-married or re-married couple, or a couple who has been together for decades — you are in the right place.

In my world of working with couples living with life-threatening and chronic illness I have a few core beliefs

  • I believe you deserve to STOP the havoc that fear, denial, exhaustion and the emotional roller coaster of living with and loving a partner living with life-threatening and chronic illness causes.
  • I believe you are ready to positively impact the (stress) triggers that are creating chaos in your life and love-life at this moment.
  • I believe you can move forward into a stronger and closer connection with each other and return to the rich and loving life you shared with your partner before the diagnosis!
  • I believe you are committed to stop feeling anger, fear, uncertainty and the heartache of broken dreams to Daring to LIVE Well.
  • I believe that all things are possible!

Hi, I’m Dr. Jackie

You and your partner are having a challenging time now, and I’m here to partner with you to find your best solutions.

How did this become my life?

Well, in the early 1980’s I went with a friend to her Ladies’ Club luncheon and the 30-minute presentation was all about grief and loss. Before that luncheon, I thought that grief was always related to someone dying. But nothing could be further from the truth. I’ll tell you more about that in a minute.

After that luncheon, I started reading everything I could get my hands on related to grief and loss, and death and bereavement. Along the way, I found ADEC (Association for Death Education and Counseling) and I joined immediately.

I was very active in ADEC for a number of years, and attended many trainings and conferences.

Through ADEC, I met many professionals and para-professionals who were just as captivated by the whole area of grief and loss as I was. It didn’t take long to recognize that I was home – professionally speaking.

I was among esteemed colleagues who resonated as deeply as I did with helping people who were ill and dying; supporting them and their families during those often difficult and emotional times; and helping grieving partners and other family members following the death of their loved ones.

And my work extended to supporting people who were ill and not dying. Though, I must confess, that in those years my colleagues wondered how in the world I was supporting them.

Now, here’s the more.

In the mid 1980’s while I was working as a psychologist with men and women fighting cancer, I began to notice that their partners and family members wanted my support too. That was when I started to understand the necessity of supporting couples when one partner was facing life-threatening illness.

Not long after that, I became involved in the AIDS/HIV community and supported people who were ill and their partners. In October 1987 I was privileged to be on the National Grief Team when the AIDS Quilt was on display on the Mall in Washington, DC.

A few years later, a physician who often referred his patients and their partners to me for support, called me and asked me if I could help a friend of his who had recently been diagnosed with Guillain–Barré syndrome, an autoimmune disorder. I wasn’t certain exactly how I would support this man, but I knew I could.

That was the beginning of my work with people who were living with chronic illness.

I transitioned into the Coaching field.

Since 1999, when I transitioned into Marriage Coaching, I have guided many couples to discover their unique way to LIVE an extraordinary life together, no matter what health challenges they were facing,

And then there was Mark.

I met and married Mark, the love of my life, and lived happily-ever-after until his death from cancer in 2005.

It’s not a pre-requisite for a professional to have lived your experience in order to be highly effective. And, my personal experience being the partner of a man who lived with cancer and being in a couple who lived WELL with life-threatening illness does provide certain experience that does translate into advantages for you.

So this is my business… getting into YOUR business and guiding you back to the love-life you love and stop settling for the one you have.

Before I go, I want to give you access to my guide to 3 UN-Loving Traps and tell you about the benefits of being a member of our community.

Member Benefits:

  • Access to our Private Online Forum where you will be able to actively engage with me and other couples who are daring to live well with illness.
  • Announcements of weekly Blog Posts and Facebook Live Chats.
  • Member-Only Special Offers that I make from time to time.

Here’s how we can partner together!


7-Week Virtual Restorative Experience


3-Day Private Destination Retreat 

No matter what health challenges you are facing, you deserve to LIVE a remarkable life together.

Thank you for being here. I look forward to getting to know you and providing the support and guidance you have been looking for.

Know, that I am determined to help you move from anger, fear, uncertainty and grieving broken dreams to daring to LIVE well!

Know, that I am ready to partner with you so you can close the emotional gap between you and your partner that has been widening little by little for a while, reignite your enthusiasm for your love-life and reconnect your hearts.